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Old 2019-11-26, 04:44 PM   #31
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EDIT: Just read your response about safety concerns and danger. Again, this is something that seems to be grounded in her perception of unicycling that isn't true.
This reminds me of riding on the bicycle path and mostly old peeps going for a ride on their bikes going in a very big circle around me, even when they are oncoming traffic, they give me a lot of space as they expect that I will just tumble off. Sometimes I throw my hands in the air making them think I will fall off and I've also had that they end up riding in the grass beside the bicycle path. Quite funny. People are really scared when they see something they can't comprehend.
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Old 2019-11-26, 05:14 PM   #32
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I asked today about her aversion to unicycles, and she genuinely worries a lot about me and the kids... She equates half as many wheels as a normal bike to twice as dangerous...I was the victim of a hit and run a few years back on a regular bike and had a serious concussion and retrograde amnesia. I didn't recognise her when she came to my bedside at the hospital... that had to hurt right.. all good now though thankfully.

I have been married for more than 20 years.

Looks like you have your ride in Sydney sorted... Unicyclists are a real accommodating bunch, so nice that Gockie can join you.
IT sounds like she has some unresolved issues from your accident. I dont mean to overstep, but would she be willing to talk to a therapist?
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Old 2019-11-27, 01:33 AM   #33
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I bet this thread'll learn ya Steve!
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Old 2019-11-27, 01:56 AM   #34
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Thatís awesome! Count me in
And Iím sure a uni can be arranged for you
Hi John,

No worries mate! Between Gockie, a few others and myself you'll have your pick of the fleet.
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Old 2019-11-27, 03:09 AM   #35
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My neighborhood is surrounded by many contiguous parks and undeveloped areas. I am lucky not to have to ride in traffic. Do you have that opportunity where you live? I can understand your wife's concern.
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Old 2019-11-27, 04:04 AM   #36
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Hey WobblySteve, are there some unicyclists close to you that you can do a group ride with? Maybe if your wife spent some time with the group it would ease her mind.
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Old 2019-11-27, 05:52 AM   #37
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My neighborhood is surrounded by many contiguous parks and undeveloped areas. I am lucky not to have to ride in traffic. Do you have that opportunity where you live? I can understand your wife's concern.
Yes I'm lucky that i am within walking distance of plenty of places to ride. I emphasise the word walking because I can't actually ride yet. Still practicing about 15 minutes to an hour every day.
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Old 2019-11-27, 05:58 AM   #38
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Hey WobblySteve, are there some unicyclists close to you that you can do a group ride with? Maybe if your wife spent some time with the group it would ease her mind.
I'm probably looking for a group of beginners cos I can't actually ride for more than about 5 pedal strokes yet. I don't think many people unicycle in Adelaide, Australia. It was not common to see cyclists in Adelaide prior to 1990. I remember when I used to cycle to work in the 80s, I would not see any other cyclists at all. The most common reaction I would get was motorists and other pedestrians yelling "Can't you afford a car?". haha
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Old 2019-11-27, 06:51 AM   #39
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Summary of responses so far...

Negative
wobblysteve
albertosaurus

Moderately Negative
setonix

Neutral
JimT
ruari
Richard C
monoguy on a mono wheel


Supportive
Canoeheadted
OneTrackMind
lightbulbjim
aj1500
wobbling bear
elpuebloUNIdo
mrfixit
Gockie
bigevilgrape
BruceC
johnfoss
Klaas Bil

So if you exclude the neutral it appears that the supportive beats the negative - 12 to 3

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Old 2019-11-27, 07:20 AM   #40
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Maybe I need to take up a real dangerous sport like Base Jumping....
Reminds me of a conversation I had with Kris Holm's mom, on the day he was married. I asked her how she felt about all the nutty stuff he was doing on the unicycle, like riding on very high cliffs and bridge railings? This was 2003. Her response was a total surprise; she said she really worried more about Kris' sister, whose winter activity choice of activity was ice climbing!
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Well you know her: she is (extremely) lightweight so she is built for distance running ... but now she only regularly practices jogging (and some indoor exercices in a gym)
Thanks! gym yes, but running/jogging definitely not for Jacquie. But we do love our rides together, she on her recumbent and me on my G36. I beat hear on the uphills and she creams me on the downhills. In between, I now struggle to keep up sometimes...
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No worries mate! Between Gockie, a few others and myself you'll have your pick of the fleet.
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Thatís awesome! Count me in
And Iím sure a uni can be arranged for you
That's very kind of you. Not sure who Dave was working with in the Sydney area, but Sunday 5 Jan. is also possible, or the 6th or 7th. Morning. Depending on the riders in the gruop, would love to go on a scenic and/or challenging Muni ride, or just meet somewhere in town and share our toys and skills. I'm at johnfoss at unicycling d com.
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.... donít fly Qatar. They are a pain in the butt and stole money and a phone from my partner. And the guy at checkin said my unicycle was going to damage his plane. Really?
Wow, harsh! If an airline employee told me my unicycle would damage their plane, I would ask if they have any stronger planes. Otherwise reminds me of my experience in China after Unicon X. After checking in and paying for everything, man at the luggage belt says I have to pay for them to take my luggage. His command of English was very limited, and I said we already paid. Having experienced similar examples throughout our trip, I then just stared back at him for a while, until he waved us through.
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Old 2019-11-27, 06:22 PM   #41
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She didn't really like how much space the unicycles took up in the garage but was much happier when I built a hanging rack.
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She is fervently against me buying new unicycles because I have enough in her eyes, but as she never enters the shed where I have all of the unicycles.
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Negative
wobblysteve
albertosaurus

Moderately Negative
setonix

Neutral
JimT
ruari
Richard C
monoguy on a mono wheel


Supportive
Canoeheadted
OneTrackMind
lightbulbjim
aj1500
wobbling bear
elpuebloUNIdo
mrfixit
Gockie
bigevilgrape
BruceC
johnfoss
Klaas Bil

So if you exclude the neutral it appears that the supportive beats the negative - 12 to 3
Maybe not as statistically relevant as wobblysteve's observation but maybe a clue is in the name "unicycle". If more than one (are in sight) the support wanes?
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Old 2019-11-27, 07:45 PM   #42
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My Mrs. is also fully supportive in unicycling and every other activity I take up. She is concerned about my safety and insists I wear at least a helmet and wrist guards, which I do wear, along with leg armour and elbow pads. When I first started she said not to get hurt because she didnít want to have to get the winters firewood by herself. She does want to try the unicycle herself this coming spring.
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Old 2019-11-27, 08:07 PM   #43
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My wife is definitely supportive, though with some misgivings -- she supports me, and since I unicycle and it makes me happy, she supports that too. On re-reading my earlier post, I can see why wobblysteve classified us as "neutral".
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Old 2019-11-28, 03:01 AM   #44
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Definitely positive comments from my better half

It really makes me sad to hear about yours and others lack of support! Learning to ride can be frustrating enough in the beginning even when you have a good support system, but when you don't...well I wouldn't be surprised if some people in such circumstances gave up too soon.

Hang in there!! If it's truly a passion of yours, don't let what anyone says deter you in any way. And hopefully once she sees you progress from learning to more accomplished riding she'll change her mind about it.

My better half of 18 years has been extremely supportive of my newly discovered passion of only 6 months now. She was very proud of me for pursuing this long time dream of mine and I can hear the pride in her voice whenever she talks about me with friends and family. I'm sure it helps that I always try to be equally supportive of her with her hobbies and new ideas as well.

Now don't get me wrong, It's not like I have a limitless amount of money I am allowed spend on unicycles and fill up our garage with them. We also have 5yr old twins, which doesn't always allow me the time I wish I could spend riding. But as long as I'm spending time with her and the kids she has been incredibly supportive.
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Old 2019-11-28, 03:03 AM   #45
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My Mrs. is also fully supportive in unicycling and every other activity I take up. She is concerned about my safety and insists I wear at least a helmet and wrist guards, which I do wear, along with leg armour and elbow pads. When I first started she said not to get hurt because she didnít want to have to get the winters firewood by herself. She does want to try the unicycle herself this coming spring.
Same here, my wife may not be impressed by some of my adventure choices but she wishes me a good time and ask that i update her when i can. She requested i do not injure myself unicycling, skydiving, backbacking etc because she does not want to give up being a stay at home mom and go get another job to support her dumbass injured husband lol
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